"Constellation 'thinking' has become second nature from me. It enhances the way I connection with family and friends and informs the way I view social and political interactions throughout the world."
"I have been studying with Jamy and Peter for 4 years. The experience of healing has been amazing and in alignment with my soul's longing to heal myself and to help heal my family. I have witnessed amazing healing happen within my family while in this container. My relationship with my parents has deepened, long held grudges in my family let go of, and my family coming together in love to celebrate my parents to name but a few.
"The most profound part of this program has been to 'feel' my ancestors stand behind me with their love and support, family members that were deceased that I had no relationship with. I now feel present in my life. Jamy and Peter honor the work of Bert Hellinger, the original founder of this work in its modern form, in a container of strength and integrity. Their passion and commitment to this healing modality is beautiful to witness and be a part of.
"If you feel a call to heal something within yourself in regards to your family, or are pondering what the next step of your journey may be, I would highly recommend this training. It has changed my life and how I love my family."
~ M. M., New York
"My experience with the Constellation Approach and the Immersion Program has been life changing and life affirming. Peter and Jamy create a safe, sacred container for the constellation work to unfold. Their deep wisdom and insightful, compassionate facilitation helped me to witness and bring healing to what was out of balance in my family soul. This profound healing work has empowered me to move forward in my life with greater compassion and clarity, and deeper love and acceptance of my relationships.
"My journey with Family Constellation work has been a progressive unfolding - the deeper I've gone into the work, the deeper my healing process has gone. As I've been able to turn around and look at my family and the issues held within, I've been able to open my heart more and more, making peace with the past while also taking in the gifts that have come to me through my lineage."
~ K. C., New York
"I will soon be finishing my third year of Family Constellation Training with Jamy and Peter. It has been an incredible journey which has brought immediate and sometimes dramatic shifts in my relationships with my family, and more surprisingly, in their relationships with one another.
"Siblings who haven't been in touch with one another for years and even decades are suddenly emailing and calling and visiting. There has been a huge shift in how we are all feeling about one another and particularly in how we are relating to our elderly mother. A complete turn around, such that it has my mother saying over and over: "I can't understand why everyone is being so kind..."
"Something else is that this change of current has already reached into the next generation. Nieces and nephews who did not know one another at all are now in contact - seemingly independently of their parents, are beginning to visit one another, and report back that this one or that one is a really great person, thus bringing further healing to their parents. It has been awe-inspiring to discover, both through my own constellations and when witnessing other people's constellations, that often the "block" is not where it was assumed to be - this is what constellations with reliable representatives show over and over again.
"The container that Jamy and Peter create, and their way of working together, feels so strong and safe, that I have been able to face many of my fears, while going deep into the energy of my family field and the fields of other families and systems. With love, and in the spirit of healing our families, yours and mine."
~ T. M., Newfoundland, Canada
"I wanted to write and say thank you for the wonderful constellation workshop I was privileged to attend. I'd heard of Constellation work before, but experiencing it with you in the vessel the two of you created was nothing short of extraordinary.
"What I didn't realize would be so powerful was the long term effects of the work, and just how much it would affect others. As the weeks and months pass, I'm witnessing and experiencing not just healing of relationships with my parents, but the implementation of an entirely new relationship template within my family; one that feels, well, normal.
"I never dreamed that this work could affect others so powerfully, especially when they hadn't taken the workshop and had no idea what it was about to begin with. The two of you have made such impacts on my life I don't even know how to express. Much love."
~ V. G., Jerusalem, Israel
"I will attest to the power of this program. It's one thing to know the facts of the family history. It's quite another to be present in a compassionate, respectful container with your family energies and to be guided to deeper understanding and acceptance of one's unconscious family loyalty. If there is anyone in your family with whom you have not found peace and resolution, this program will help you move toward it.
"My wife and I did the first year of the program together and were married just after completing it. It has given us much understanding of the energies that we bring with us into the marriage from our family souls. I can't recommend it highly enough for support in any kind of relationship."
~ C. C., Georgia
"The Constellation Approach has helped me find an inner sense of freedom that no other teaching has yet done. You are two of the most honest, generous and gifted guides I have ever worked with."
~ M. S., Massachusetts
"I am finding that Constellation work is on a level that gets to the heart of any issue I am working on at that moment. For that I thank you, Jamy and Peter, for allowing me the opportunity to work with the two of you. You are two very special people and I truly owe so much of my personal life transformation to the help I have received from each of you."
~ R. M., Connecticut
"I have done a LOT of work... workshops, retreats, etc. over the past 20 years and I think this is among the most powerful, if not the most powerful!"
~ M. R., New York
"This work has helped me find an inner sense of freedom that no other teaching has yet done. Jamy and Peter are two of the most honest, generous, and gifted guides I have ever worked with. It was a huge surprise to me to find that as I did constellations regarding my mother, my father, and my siblings, that many members of my family changed at their core without me saying a word to them. The process of this work and its results are difficult to describe because it is so hard to believe the description. This is something you really have to experience."
~ M., Ontario, Canada
"Coming to the weekend Constellation seminar and having an individual session was life altering for me. I am awed, though now it all makes sense why I had such a strong pull to travel all the way to Boston... Divine intervention no doubt. I am hoping to take your course as I feel you are both amazing facilitators."
~ J. Z., Colorado
"There are no words to describe how profoundly healing the Constellation was for me. More HUGE for me than I can describe. Thank you both with all my heart and soul to heal and get such profound pieces that I had not gotten before in all the decades and massive amounts of work I have done and healing I have received."
~ S., Arizona
"Thank you for the amazing gifts you both bring forth in this work. I continue to be in awe at the power of this process... and the deep presence, love, and clarity you offer. I am so grateful!! With love and gratitude."
~ J. P., Maine
"I would like to share with you a shift that occurred in my family soon after having worked on my family constellation. My daughter called her father after years of struggle and periods of estrangement and stated that she "needed a father" -- that she would like for him to take a larger part in her life. She went on to describe experiencing a feeling of acceptance of her dad for who he is. She no longer feels troubled by some of his behaviors and attitudes that in the past have been a source of great friction. With love and gratitude."
~ G. D, New York
"We joined the others in the circle that day without the slightest clue of "The Constellation Approach" and the content of the work. We each experienced things in ourselves that we hadn't accessed before, and witnessed pieces of the other we had overlooked. We were changed. What is dramatically different now is how we are together in the midst of life's unfolding. Appreciation has replaced resentment. Listening has been substituted for judging. Tolerating has given way to love.
"Thank you to both of you, the witnesses in the room that day, and to the Constellation Approach for creating a space for our healing and growth."
~ S. M., Maine
"I feel peace in my heart for the first time in many months. I am so grateful to you both for your love and support."
~ M, New York
"I have done many programs over my life. However, Family Constellations have really pushed me to go to the root of the root. I am moved by you. I see the empathy and compassion in you every time we meet."
~ C. E., Washington
"I keep thinking about you guys and how much you have helped me with my family. It is a miracle that my mom came to stay with me for two and a half months, and my dad also came to stay with us for a week. We had been very much estranged before I did your workshop."
~ T. B., Georgia
"I want to express my gratitude for the work you facilitated. I was dealing with my mom's upcoming passing and what I received from our work was foundational for all that occurred. I was able to let her go in peace. I felt relieved and supported by this profound work. I hope you can feel my deep gratitude toward you both."
~ D. H., Florida
"What is dramatically different now is how we are together in the midst of life's unfolding. Appreciation has replaced resentment. Listening has been substituted for judging. And tolerating has given way to love."
~ S. & D., New Hampshire
"The workshop I attended last weekend impacted me in ways I cannot even describe. I just wanted to tell you what a great pleasure to meet you both, and know that your work is a positive contribution to society."
~ J. A., Florida
"We are so very glad we came to work with you! the dynamics of our relationship have already changed a great deal. We both feel like different people and are able to communicate more effectively."
~ J. Z.
"Please know how grateful I am for your tenderness, compassion and incredible insight into my family constellation. This workshop was without a doubt, one of the most powerful, if not the most powerful event I have experienced to date. Such a tremendous burden that I carried my entire life has been lifted. I feel such love and gratitude for everyone in my family. I have witnessed my family soul through the constellation... so different than the image and pain that I carried with me up until now. In the end my family was shoulder to shoulder, balanced and in harmony, I was flooded with such grace and love beyond words. I have found myself reciting four words at the most precise time, nothing less than magical, "I accept it all!" Thank you for your deep commitment to this work."
~ N. L., Pennsylvania
"I find this work to be quite freeing and your teaching approach is clean, clear and from the heart. What I love most about the work is that it is not about the story. It is a clear approach to the energetic patterns and fields that hold us in the past."
~ J. S., New York
"I am still thinking about what a wonderful day it was! The next day I felt so great. It was like heavy weights had been lifted from my shoulders. No question Bert Hellinger has discovered a very effective and special way to uncover and heal family wounds and issues. Thank you again for being the instruments of this work."
~ C. H., Connecticut
"Thank you both for my amazing experience in your workshop. It helped me make a most important shift in my attitudes as well as the way I approach my relationships (with myself and others). The most important thing that I learned was that my truth is not my story. They both matter but they are different. This lesson keeps resonating in my life and has opened me up to more successful and satisfying communications, particularly with my parents. Every day I have occasion to practice and be grateful for what I was able to learn and experience with you."
~ G. S., Massachusetts
"I just want you to know how grateful I am for the experience you provided this past weekend. I am continuing to receive and heal. You both touched my heart. I can't stop talking about how wonderful the Constellation work is."
~ B. W., Florida
"A simple thank you does not seem to express my gratitude for the deep work you were able to do yesterday. The whole day touched me and continues to reverberate from my core. Thank you for demonstrating a different way to relate to people.In humble appreciation."
~ D. H., Florida
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The seeds of our life begin together entwined,
Mixing as one.
Sprouting they hold promise and joy,
Disappointment and loss.
A mix of sun and rain, shade and drought,
Steers our way.
Choked out, trampled, weeded or watered,
Determines our growth.
These seeds of our life give us strength
To move inward toward stillness, our home.